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5 Things That Could Kill Your Long Distance Relationship
Everyone knows that long distance-relationships aren't easy. I mean,
it's not like they are anyone's dream relationship; however, more and
more college students are finding themselves in long distance
relationships. Maybe you met your significant other over a school break
and they live miles away; maybe they're a high school sweetheart
attending the community college back home; maybe you went to the same
school but they graduated or transferred, leaving you in an LDR that you
never expected to be in. Well, no matter what your specific
circumstances are, I'm sure we can all agree that long distance
relationships are hard. Here are five things to be wary of that could
break up your long distance love:




1. Lack of communication
This one is obvious. If you're not seeing each other very often, those good morning texts, good night texts, Skype dates or the occasional late-night phone calls can make or break your relationship. Communication is the one way you can make your partner feel that they are still an important part of your life, and when you stop talking as often, or if the conversations turn into nothing more than the "Hey. How was your day?" or, "How've you been?" your relationship starts falling apart.2. Unresolved fights
When you see each other everyday, you are sort of forced to face any problems that lie between the two of you. However, when you are looking forward to those phone calls or Skype dates, its easy to push aside big issues, not wanting to waste what little time you have together arguing... Don't do this! Unresolved problems can turn to resentment, and nothing is going to change if you don't talk about it. Do you realize how much it would suck if the eventual breakup is caused by a problem the two of you could have fixed months ago instead of ignoring it?3. Infrequent visits
As a college student, it can be hard to work around your school and work schedule to visit your significant other. But making plans to visit each other, even if it is a month or two away, is important. It's really important to have something to look forward to; rather than focusing on how long you are apart, you can start thinking of how great it will be to be together again. Also, at some point you have to make your significant other a priority instead of letting them fade to the background. While it can be difficult to balance everything going on in your life, if your love is worth it, then put them first every once in a while. If you don't, even a strong relationship could crumble.
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