Relationship
How to Text a Guy You Like (Crush On Him)
If you're excited to text the guy you have a crush on, but you're afraid that you'll say the wrong thing or that you might even look desperate or needy, the trick to texting your crush is to be fun and playful while not coming on too strong. If you're looking for tips for texting the guy you like, then you've come to the right place.
Ask a good question.
Starting your texting session with a question is a great way to show you're interested in your crush and to make it easy for him to respond. He will also appreciate that you're being direct, and that you're not wasting his time with a text that he doesn't even know how to answer. Here are some ways to ask a good question:
Ask a good question.
Starting your texting session with a question is a great way to show you're interested in your crush and to make it easy for him to respond. He will also appreciate that you're being direct, and that you're not wasting his time with a text that he doesn't even know how to answer. Here are some ways to ask a good question:
- Ask him something specific about himself. This will show that you're interested in what he's been up to.
- Ask him something he can easily answer. Don't ask him about what he thinks is the meaning of life; ask him how he did on his math test.
- Be direct. He will appreciate a question that is clear and not too wordy.
- Ask an open-ended question. If you ask him something that he can answer in just a few words, then it will be hard to continue the conversation. Instead of saying, "When did you get home last night?" ask, "How was the party last night?" This will give him more to work with.
Be original.
He will be impressed by you if you don't just send him the kind of text anyone could send. Instead of just saying hello, you can ask an interesting question, or tell him something that will make him want to respond to you and pursue the conversation further.
- Make him laugh. Being clever early on will make him want to make you laugh in return.
- Make a witty observation. This is another great way to start, as long as he knows how to answer your statement.
- Don't try too hard to craft the perfect opening. If you do, he will be able to tell.
Be engaging.You should let him know that you're able to keep up a lively conversation, and keep things open so he feels like it's easy to keep talking to you.
Being engaging means not only giving the right response to him, but making it easy for him to keep the conversation going. Here's how to do it:
Being engaging means not only giving the right response to him, but making it easy for him to keep the conversation going. Here's how to do it:
- Ask him about something he's done. He'll love to tell you more about himself. This will also show that you pay attention to the things he tells you.
- Be witty. Don't just say "hahaha" if he says something funny. This will end the conversation. Instead, fire back with something equally funny to show that you can play ball.
- Tell him something he's never heard before. Maybe you heard something really weird on the news, or you were impressed by a random fact. Tell him what you know and he'll ask some questions to follow up.
- Be playful. He'll appreciate seeing your silly side and will be silly back if you set the right tone. You can show that you're smart without taking yourself too seriously, and he will love that.
Know when to end the conversation.
It's important to end things at the right time so your guy stays interested. If he's always the one to end the conversation, or if you just keep dragging the conversation on when he's busy or when there's nothing left to say, then he will leave the conversation without wanting more. Here's how to know when to end the conversation:
It's important to end things at the right time so your guy stays interested. If he's always the one to end the conversation, or if you just keep dragging the conversation on when he's busy or when there's nothing left to say, then he will leave the conversation without wanting more. Here's how to know when to end the conversation:
- If you're just struggling to find anything to talk about.
- If he's giving you one word responses, like "Yes," or "No," then he may not want to keep talking.
- If he's not asking you any questions back, then he may only be responding to you out of politeness.
- If he's always the one to end the conversation. Mix things up and make sure that you're the one who has to go at least half the time.
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