Dear ladies,
There is one thing I want you to understand about us MEN.

When you post half- naked pictures of yourself on Facebook, doing a
sexy pose, or showing us your boobs or lying seductively on
your bed...The only thing you are doing is making us feel lust about you

I know you will feel excited about the 500 Likes, 120 sweet Comments and countless inbox messages you will receive and you will feel so high more so to be on top of the world.
BUT ONE IMPORTANT THING YOU SHOULD KNOW, in reality, none of those guys who will like and comment on your photo or send you messages in your inbox loves you. They are just lust about using and dumping you. In fact they hate you because none of them would take you to his home to be his wife. Trust me they take you as a whore looking for cheap popularity on facebook.

Men whether rich or poor admire ladies who dress decently and respect themselves.
Decent clothing that reveals less about your body makes us love and respect you.
It tells us that you are a virtuous woman and a wife material one would take home to be a mother.
It tells us how you were brought up morally and gives us details about your good family background.

We don’t really care alot about your excessive make-ups and face paintings??
A good wife material remains no matter what.
Value your Body, Be real and Respect yourself.
And a good man who will respect you will find you whatsoever.

Good Evening Family...

If you're excited to text the guy you have a crush on, but you're afraid that you'll say the wrong thing or that you might even look desperate or needy, the trick to texting your crush is to be fun and playful while not coming on too strong. If you're looking for tips for texting the guy you like, then you've come to the right place.

Ask a good question. 

Starting your texting session with a question is a great way to show you're interested in your crush and to make it easy for him to respond. He will also appreciate that you're being direct, and that you're not wasting his time with a text that he doesn't even know how to answer. Here are some ways to ask a good question:

• Ask him something specific about himself. This will show that you're interested in what he's been up to.
• Ask him something he can easily answer. Don't ask him about what he thinks is the meaning of life; ask him how he did on his math test.
• Be direct. He will appreciate a question that is clear and not too wordy.
• Ask an open-ended question. If you ask him something that he can answer in just a few words, then it will be hard to continue the conversation. Instead of saying, "When did you get home last night?" ask, "How was the party last night?" This will give him more to work with.

Everyone knows that long distance-relationships aren't easy. I mean, it's not like they are anyone's dream relationship; however, more and more college students are finding themselves in long distance relationships. Maybe you met your significant other over a school break and they live miles away; maybe they're a high school sweetheart attending the community college back home; maybe you went to the same school but they graduated or transferred, leaving you in an LDR that you never expected to be in. Well, no matter what your specific circumstances are, I'm sure we can all agree that long distance relationships are hard. Here are five things to be wary of that could break up your long distance love:

1. Lack of communication

This one is obvious. If you're not seeing each other very often, those good morning texts, good night texts, Skype dates or the occasional late-night phone calls can make or break your relationship. Communication is the one way you can make your partner feel that they are still an important part of your life, and when you stop talking as often, or if the conversations turn into nothing more than the "Hey. How was your day?" or, "How've you been?" your relationship starts falling apart.

2. Unresolved fights

When you see each other everyday, you are sort of forced to face any problems that lie between the two of you. However, when you are looking forward to those phone calls or Skype dates, its easy to push aside big issues, not wanting to waste what little time you have together arguing... Don't do this! Unresolved problems can turn to resentment, and nothing is going to change if you don't talk about it. Do you realize how much it would suck if the eventual breakup is caused by a problem the two of you could have fixed months ago instead of ignoring it?

3. Infrequent visits

As a college student, it can be hard to work around your school and work schedule to visit your significant other. But making plans to visit each other, even if it is a month or two away, is important. It's really important to have something to look forward to; rather than focusing on how long you are apart, you can start thinking of how great it will be to be together again. Also, at some point you have to make your significant other a priority instead of letting them fade to the background. While it can be difficult to balance everything going on in your life, if your love is worth it, then put them first every once in a while. If you don't, even a strong relationship could crumble.

4. Not making time for your S.O.

Not having enough time for your partner is one of the main reasons long distance relationships don't work out, but it's also the most selfish. Think of all the things you do in a day, all the people you talk to, the TV shows you watch, the video games you play, even the time spent doing absolutely nothing. Love requires compromise and sacrifice; if you can't put aside one hour of doing one of these things to make your significant other feel loved and special, then it can't work out.

5. Not trying

At the end of the day, you can mess up all of these other things and still be in love. The only thing that can ever really kill your relationship is when you stop trying. Long distance relationships are hard -- of course they are -- but they're worth it. Don't give up and don't stop trying; make time when you can. Never let only one person in the relationship do all of the work; if you've become too busy, too wrapped up in school or in your own life that you've forgotten your S.O.'s needs, just stop and think..."What have I done to make them happy today?" You should be able to answer that question almost every day. And if you haven't done anything to make them happy in a while, then try harder. Go surprise them and visit them. Call them just to say you wanted to hear their voice. Send them a cute picture that made you think of them. Tell them how much you miss them. Send a heart-felt 'I love you' text. Just... don't give up.

When Melanie, 42, fell in love at first sight she was having a coffee in a local café. ‘I got the impression someone was watching me,’ she says. ‘I looked up and saw a man with greying hair, who was smiling at me. I thought, I could do with a man like that. He looks happy but thoughtful. I could spend my life with someone like him.’ The feeling was mutual and a few minutes later he came over to talk to her. ‘I said to myself, “Yes. From now on you only say yes”. Since then I’ve never stopped saying yes to him.’
Anyone who has felt this instant attraction describes the experience as dramatic, intense and overwhelming.

As psychologist Linda Blair says: ‘The feeling can make you feel unbelievably alive. It can knock you flat in any situation, and you shouldn’t view it with suspicion.’ That sense of physical and emotional intensity – your heart pounding, your eyes lighting up – is something we’d all like to experience. So is it just random, or can we all make it happen this way?

Yes, we can, says psychoanalyst Roland Gori, who believes we can create a frame of mind where we’re more likely to fall in love instantly. ‘We need to believe that, on some level, something is missing from our lives,’ he explains. ‘When we feel “complete”, that we’ve found everything we want, we’re not as open to the possibility that someone else can heal our pain.’

Whereas if we’re feeling vaguely dissatisfied, someone can appear exactly when we need them to. When we’re feeling down, we’re more open to the romantic notion that someone can walk in and save us. Which is why love at first sight is something we find so desirable, particularly when we’ve been through a difficult time or struggled with sorrow and depression.

‘It’s at these moments you can understand what passion really is,’ says Gori. ‘Someone catches our eye and we lose our reason. This may be more likely to happen to people who are susceptible to eye contact: holding the gaze of another person feels like an intense and intimate connection.’

It also happens to people who are less inhibited, more open to chance. If we consciously look for love, we’re less likely to find it. Instead we need to cultivate a genuine feeling of being available without necessarily wanting anything to happen. ‘Everyone could potentially feel the connection of instant love, even those who don’t consciously want to,’ says psychiatrist and psychoanalyst Didier Lauru. ‘But some conditions need to be in place, and these have nothing to do with the desire to experience these emotions’.

When Louise, 37, met Patrick in Hong Kong, she didn’t have the least intention of falling in love. ‘I’d just begun a round-the-world trip with a friend,’ she says. ‘I really wasn’t looking for an emotional attachment. I wanted to have fun, to discover new places. I wanted to travel. We were at the beginning of our journey and I felt very available, very free. I went to a bar with my friend, and his flatmate Patrick walked in. From the moment I set eyes on him, I heard a little voice in my head saying something I always think is ridiculous when I hear other people saying it – “I want him”. He seemed strangely familiar. He sat down beside me and ordered two beers, announcing that he intended to get really drunk. We drank, we talked. We kissed, I think. I don’t really remember very clearly. We left together in a taxi, both drunk. On the way back to my hotel he patted me on the leg, laughing, and said, “I need to marry someone like you”.’ Then the taxi dropped Louise at her hotel.



The next day, she left with her friend. ‘I wasn’t sad, I just told myself that if it was meant to happen, it would.’

Two months later, when she was back at work in London, she got a call – from Patrick. ‘He was visiting and remembered where I worked, so he looked it up in the phone book. Ten years later we are still living together and have two children.’ Given this idyllic scenario, who wouldn’t want to experience love at first sight? Yet such an instant connection doesn’t guarantee a long and happy relationship, something many psychologists often warn us about.

‘I would say it’s more lust at first sight – it’s physical attraction, which is fine, but real love takes longer to develop,’ says Blair. ‘We feel love at first sight when we believe we have met someone who understands us,’ says Gori.

Whether they do or not is less significant. ‘I felt as though I was lost and someone came along to tell me where I was,’ writes the French surrealist André Breton. ‘When we experience love at first sight we idealise the other person,’ explains Lauru. ‘We feel certain that this person will complete us’.




We are also, Lauru believes, drawn back to our earliest unconscious memories; the physical connection between mother and newborn when they first gaze at one another. It is probably the rarity of love at first sight that makes it even more desirable. Lauru says if we experience it even once in our lifetime, we’ll be lucky. And if that chance encounter leads to a lasting relationship, even luckier.

Here are some inimical attitudes that some women exhibit that looks naive and silly.

1. Keeping malice with their husbands over a little disagreement.

2. Shouting at their husbands because they had a little misunderstanding. 

3. Not preparing for their husbands because of their fixed nails.

4. Always squandering housekeep money injudiciously.

5. Acting all nice with people outside but when she comes
home she acts like a tigress...and when you tell people
outside what she does they find it difficult to believe it.

6. Not giving their husbands se.x because of a previous quarrel. 

7. Always rude and hostile 



You can add yours...

It happens.People fall out of love and become disinterested. But how do you tell when your boyfriend isn't into you anymore or isn't taking the relationship seriously?


You could just ask, but he may pretend everything's okay and you won't get a real answer.So if you suspect your boyfriend has been experiencing a change of heart in your relationship, here are some signs that may just confirm it.


Seven Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship:
1.He Doesn't Involve You In His Life

You aren't invited to family events or to hang out with his friends.He keeps his life very personal and quiet, and you're always guessing whether that's his nature.That's not his nature, he tired of your relationship and he's trying to keep you off little by little.

2.He Talks About Other Girls

If he's looking at or talking about other girls, he doesn't have eyes for you and that's an obvious sign of disinterest.He's actually finding other ladies more attractive than you were.

3.Doesn't Ask For Details

He doesn't ask you about your day, and even if he does, he sounds disinterested and doesn't ask for more.He's just going through the motions but wants the conversation to be over before it's even started..*lol*lmao*.










4.He Makes You Feel Like You Can't Say Anything Right

Is your boyfriend constantly picking fights with you and misinterpreting everything you say? Do you feel like you're running around in circles and defending yourself even when you're being nice? Unless, you're spending in code, there's a bigger problem and it has nothing to do with you. 
5. He Constantly Say "Sorry" For The Same Thing

Sorry is just a word unless there's a real effort made to not make the same mistake again.He says sorry when he cheats, sorry when he slaps you, sorry when you caught him with another lady..He will start singing you the song "Sorry" by Justin Bieber.

6.It's All About Sex

Having sex is not a means of keeping a relationship interesting.It's good to cuddle, but when the only compliments are about your body and all of your time together feels like a means to an end...Sister! Sorry! It's not Love, but Lust.

7.He Remember Nothing About You









You have full conversations that he cannot recollect.He heard you mention your April birthday five times but sill swears you were born in June.If the only thing he remembers is your address and his favourite bra-and-panty set, there's a problem with your relationship.


NOTE:
Knowing more about your relationship is important.If you're seeing these signs or part of it in him, you need to settle things out or you'd rather called it a Quit