Sometimes, people misread chemistry with others
and end up getting turned down when they make a
move. The question is, can you remain friends with
someone who rejects you?

According to relationship expert, Marie Dubuque, you
can remain friends with a person who clearly told you
‘no’ when you asked to date them.

Dubuque says there are certain conditions to maintaining
that kind of relationship because thing may become a little
awkward afterwards.

Some of these are:

1. You cannot hope that he or she will suddenly date
you, because that’ll spoil the friendship you have if you
wish to keep them by your side for a long time. If you
cannot be platonic friends with your crush, then
distancing yourself is the right thing to do.

2. You have to pretend it never happened. The trick is
to act normal and the only way you can do that is to
behave the way you were before you asked them for a
relationship.

3. Meet other people, go out on dates and you’ll see
that you can express yourself better whenever your
crush comes around.

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Being in a relationship has become a major goal in life for people our age. Almost everyone, man or woman, is looking for that special someone to hold on to at night, someone to share his or her dreams and achievements with and someone to share his or her life with.

That’s all well and good and everything, but I think single people forget how boring and sucky being in a relationship can be. Sure, you think you’ve found “The One” or whatever, but inevitably, certain aspects of your life start to really suck and get insanely boring.

1. Your bank account

Sure, Jennifer Lopez said her love “don’t cost a thing,” but she is completely incorrect, both grammatically and practically.

Being in a relationship costs money. You still need to go out and do stuff with your significant other. People think that when someone is in a relationship, all he or she does is sit on the couch with his or her lover and watch TV for months.

That’s simply not true. Holy crap is that not true. If you’ve ever been in a relationship, you know the pressure of having to come up with new and exciting date ideas and gifts that let your SO know you still care and think about him or her. You will be spending a lot more money than you think.

Plus, it’s not like when you go out on those dates with your boyfriend or girlfriend, all of a sudden it’s a 50-50 split of the bill. Someone is always burdened with paying for things, and that can take a huge chunk out of one’s financials.

We need to stop pretending that relationships don’t cost money.

2. Holidays

Spending the holidays with your significant other sounds wonderful. You get to share in the holiday spirit and “canoodle” with each other while feeling the special glow of whatever holiday it is.

But that’s where you are wrong.

On big holidays, you most likely have to spend that time with your SO’s family. That’s an incredibly stressful situation. You have to put your best foot forward and make sure you impress them. You have to be on your best behavior, probably have to wear something fancy, and there is absolutely no “canoodling” allowed — awkward.

Plus, there is the additional problem of, well, what are you going to get him or her? It’s an added pressure that single people don’t have to deal with. They don’t have to find the perfect gift or think about how much they should spend on the love of their lives.

If you’re single, you don’t have to worry about the disappointment you might face if your SO isn’t really into your gift. You don’t have to worry about your partner’s friends incessantly asking, “So what are you going to get him/her?”

3. Snapchat

Holy sh*t is Snapchat boring when you are in a relationship. When you’re single, you could get a sexy surprise from someone at any given moment. You never know who might hit you up with a snap that says, “Hey, I’m thinking about you, and I want to get it on.” It’s exciting. It’s mysterious. It’s sexy.

But when you’re in a relationship, no one ever snaps you. No one. And the people who do are boring AF. If you’re in a relationship, go ahead, look at your Snapchat right now. You probably have 0 private snaps, and your friends’ stories are the dumbest things on the planet.

Oh wow, you recorded your dog looking out a window? How interesting. Oh, you’re cooking dinner for yourself? That’s amazing.

Who cares? If you’re in a relationship, just delete the app, and save some room on your phone’s storage.

4. Talking to other people

Now, I’m not talking about cheating. We all know you shouldn’t be doing that. But in my experience, any time I’ve gotten a text message from a girl (who is just a friend), my girlfriend would be peering over my shoulder, ready to ask, “Who is that? How do you know her?”

This is an annoying part of being in a relationship. First of all, why is she constantly looking over my shoulder at my phone? Second of all, it’s so ridiculous that I need to have a back story for every single person who texts me and explain how I’m not cheating, or that the person’s texting me really doesn’t mean anything.

It’s tiring and, boy, is it a pain in the a*s.

Or if you are at a bar and some stranger starts talking to you about something, your SO will almost always think that person is hitting on you. Then you have to downplay it like, “No, she definitely wasn’t.”

It doesn’t matter if she was or wasn’t; you are going to get questioned about it.

These are just some of the things you’ll come across in your time being in a relationship. These little parts of your life will start to suck immensely. But if you think you’ve found the right person, who you want to spend the rest of your life with, I suppose it’s all worth it.

But if you care about any of the things listed above, you might have some trouble being in a relationship.

Fumbling for words while trying to talk to a girl? Find out what to say to a girl you like and warm her up to a perfect conversation with these tips. By Colin Andrews

Getting introduced or bumping into the girl can be a great start.
But unless you know what to say to a girl you like, there’s a good chance that you’ll blow the first impression.
The first few minutes of a conversation is all it takes for a girl to make an impression about you.
Get this wrong, and she may just end up remembering you as an acquaintance or a friend.

What to say to a girl in the first conversation
If you’re having a conversation with her for the first time, you need to play it safe and easy.
Many guys turn on their charm and flirt outrageously within a few seconds, but unless the girl’s easy to get and is only looking for a fling thing, you can’t really make a serious impression by trying that move.
The first thing you have to do is get friendly with her.
Try to get to know her better and make her feel comfortable around you.
Don’t make it obvious that you’re trying to flirt with her by asking her out immediately or by trying to hit on her.
If you want to let a girl know that you’re interested in her before talking to her, read how to talk to a girl you like for the first time to understand how to make the first move and have a perfect conversation with her.
If you’ve been introduced to her already or if you’re already in a conversation with her, then read on.

The guide to having a perfect conversation with the girl you like
If you’re wondering what to say to a girl you like while talking to her, just use these simple cues and the girl will warm up to you in no time.

#1 Ask her about herself.

Casually ask her what she does, where she works or where she’s studying. It’s a regular question that she’s used to hearing. Keep the questions simple but appear to be fascinated by what she says. Responding with something like “wow, that’s sounds really interesting… tell me more…” can help her open up. And she’d definitely be comfortable talking about something she knows like the back of her hand.

#2 Make a connection.

Find a way to create a connection with her. When you ask her about herself, did you find something similar about both of you? If she says she likes to paint, pretend like you’re impressed and tell her that you’ve always wanted to paint but the last time you tried meddling with colors, all you did was tip a palette of paints on your neighbor’s clothes!
Or if she says she works at a particular organization, say something like, “Aah, I’ve heard so much about that place. I hear the cafeteria has the best cappuccino!” Make anything up as long it sounds funny or makes her feel proud. Even if it’s wrong, it’ll lead to another fun conversation.

#3 Tell her about yourself.

Always make a connection first and talk about yourself later. In the first few minutes of the conversation, she may not be very interested in getting to know you better. But by building a connection and making her like you by being funny or genuinely interested in her, and then telling her something about yourself, she’ll pay attention to what you have to say. And she’d be very interested to know more about you too.

#4 Appreciate her company.

Tell her something friendly and yet, flattering. “I’m glad I met you here, I was getting so bored of just standing here with all the wrong people until you came along.” You’re not hitting on her, and yet, somehow you’re complimenting her for the great company she is.

#5 Talk about the place.

Look around in the middle of the conversation and say something about the place or someone around you. If you’re meeting at a friend’s party, ask her how she knows the host. If you’re meeting at a coffee shop, ask her for a suggestion on the type of coffee she likes around there. Make her feel special and important and she’ll love you for it!

#6 Compliment her.

So far, you would be able to make an impression on her and make her like your company. Now this is where many guys fail. They continue to make the girl laugh and have a nice time with them, and eventually the girl starts to behave like a friend around them.
If you want a girl to like you, you need to get out of her friend zone. As soon as she starts warming up to you, let her know that you don’t consider her a friend. Let her know that you’re interested in dating her. If you want to know what to say to a girl to let her know that you’re interested in dating her, you need to understand the right way to compliment a girl s*xually. Compliment a girl, but lace it with a s*xual remark to get the right message across.
Use these six tips on what to say to a girl you like while talking to her and you’ll definitely be able to create the right impression. And if you want a few more conversation pointers, read what to talk about with a girl you like to know more.

Things to remember while talking to her
# Be a cheerful guy. Girls feel comfortable around a guy with a cheerful attitude and a pleasant smile. While the surly bad boy who sits in the corner may attract a few girls, a great girl won’t wait forever for anyone.

# Don’t overdo it. Blend your compliments with serious talk. Don’t push your flirty talk too far all the time. Instead, play it cool and always make her wonder if you’ve got something on your mind.

# Lose yourself in her eyes. Stare deeply into her eyes and stretch your lips into a small smile while
listening to her. You’ll seem like you’re in awe of her, and that’s a good thing if you’re trying to woo her. Let her know you’re mesmerized by her. It’s a secret compliment!

# Remind yourself how much you like her. Think ‘I want you’ when she’s talking to you. Just tell yourself in your mind how much you like her, and by some magical vibrations, she’ll get your vibes and know what’s on your mind. And the best part, she’ll wonder if you’re truly interested in her because you haven’t told her anything about your affections just yet.

Still wondering what to say to a girl you like? Just follow these cues and you’ll be able to make a perfect impression on her and get her interested in you too!

Impressing a girl and pursuing her may the first step in charming a girl and getting her to go out with you.
But a relationship is more than just the chase.
And as much as the big shows of affection matter in a relationship, it’s the little things that really count.

Cute things to say to your girlfriend
Wouldn’t you feel nice when you’re appreciated or complimented about something?
Your girlfriend feels the same way too.
And especially when it comes to girls, romantic gestures and sweet sentences make a much more meaningful impact on them.
Want to make your girlfriend blush with delight with just a sentence?

Then look no further than these 50 cute things to say to your girlfriend.
50 sweet sentences that can make your girlfriend feel special
Firstly, these 50 cute sentences work. And they work well.
But there are a few things you have to keep in mind before using them.
Use the sentences at the appropriate moment, be truthful about it and use a line only if you really feel it in your heart. Lying or joking about something romantic only insults your girlfriend, especially if she believes you’re telling the truth at first.
You can text your girlfriend these lines or say it to her when you’re cuddling up together. But always remember to feel it before you say it.

#1 You make me believe in soul mates.
#2 You give meaning to my life.
#3 I can’t imagine my life without you in it.
#4 How do you look so beautiful all the time?
#5 You make me feel so lucky when I’m around you.
#6 You always know how to surprise me.
#7 You’re the reason my life feels so perfect.
#8 You look so cute when you laugh.
#9 You brighten up my day every time I see you.
#10 I dreamt of you last night.
#11 I think of you and kiss my pillow before I fall asleep every night.
#12 I could stare at you forever and I’d still feel like I haven’t had enough of you.
#13 I love the way you smell.
#14 You make me feel so happy when I’m with you, my jaws hurt.
#15 Spending time with you is the highlight of my day.
#16 You are such a good dancer.
#17 You understand me so well, it’s like you can read my mind.
#18 I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you.
#19 I feel so happy just spending time with you.
#20 You’re my best friend.
#21 You make my sadness disappear with your beautiful smile.
#22 No, you’re not fat. You’re perfect and just the way I like it.
#23 You could have any guy in the world, and yet you chose me.
#24 You make me feel weak in the knees when I touch you.
#25 I want to make time stand still when I’m with you but time always finds a way to fly past.
#26 I wish I could have met you years ago.
#27 Just hearing your voice in the morning makes my day.
#28 Your cute smile makes me melt.
#29 The way you look every time I say goodbye makes it so hard for me to walk away from you.
#30 You’ve made my dreams come true.
#31 I haven’t met a person who’s as nice and caring as you.
#32 I love you so much I can’t explain it even if I tried.
#33 You’re the most beautiful girl I’ve ever met.
#34 I love the way your skin feels so soft when I run my hands over it.
#35 I want to spend the rest of my life trying to make you happy.
#36 Don’t ever change, because I love you just the way you are.
#37 You make me feel like an excited child at a theme park when I’m with you.
#38 It hurts me more to see you sad.
#39 Your eyes are so expressive and beautiful I can’t help but get lost in them.
#40 You make me want to be a better man just so I can be more worthy of your love.
#41 I get butterflies in my stomach when you run your hands against my face.
#42 You look so beautiful and angelic, I feel like I’d dirty you just by touching you.
#43 I think God was high when he created you because there’s no one else who comes so close to perfection.
#44 You’re the one thing I’m most thankful for having in my life.
#45 I love the way you say you love me when I kiss you goodnight over the phone.
#46 I love the way your hair feels as I run my fingers through them.
#47 I love the way you feel in my arms when I hug you goodbye.
#48 I want to kiss every inch of you.
#49 I start my day with you on my mind and end my day with you in my dreams.
#50 I love you so much I could worship you.

Want to test these 50 cute things to say to your girlfriend? Just text any of these 50 lines to her right now, and you’ll know just how well these sentences work within minutes!

Ladies, real men do exist – and not those poor excuses you’re used to dating either. There are fully grown-ass men in this world and they would love to be with you.

The truth is that you don’t have to settle for whatever boy comes your way. In fact, you shouldn’t settle; you’re doing yourself a real injustice. If you’re going to be with a man then be with a grown-ass man. Simply put, they’re better for you. They’re more fun. They’re more reliable. And they’re better in bed.

There really is no reason to date the schmucks you’ve been dating.

Although, to be fair, it can be hard to tell the difference – especially at first glance. But with time, it’s easy to separate the men from the boys. In case you need a little extra help, here’s a checklist for you:

1. His apartment looks like an apartment.

Not a frat house. Not a zoo. Not a garbage dump, but an actual apartment. He doesn’t necessarily have to have his own place. Nor does it need to be extravagantly furnished, but you should be able to distinguish the floor from the rest of the place.

Grown men take pride in surrounding themselves with an environment that supports an active and healthy lifestyle. If he’s too lazy to keep his place clean then he’s definitely too lazy for the more important things in life.

2. He does what he does because he loves to do it – he’s more than capable of motivating himself.

This isn’t to say that a guy working at McDonald’s isn’t a grown-ass man.

Unless, of course, that’s where he plans on staying. It’s really all about the plan. Grown men have plans to get themselves from point A to point B. More importantly still, they are driven to do so.

3. He doesn’t ever need a babysitter.

No matter how drunk he is, no matter the situation… if your man is able to take care of himself and get his sh*t done, then he’s a grown man.

If you’re dating a guy who needs you to carry him home after a night out or to keep a leash on him so he doesn’t go off an do something stup*d, then I think you know the kind of guy you’re dating.

4. When he has a problem, he speaks his mind – and does so calmly and respectively.

You see, grown men don’t just go about agreeing with everything their women say. They have a mind of their own and they’re more than happy to speak their opinions. However, they do so respectfully and are always open to hearing your thoughts on the matter.

5. He has his priorities straight – and you know you’re most definitely one of them.

Guys who are lost in life aren’t much more than boys. Men have direction.

Boys have playtime. If your man knows what he wants out of life and gives all those things that are most important to him attention and care, then you have yourself a winner.

6. He takes care of himself – body and mind.

His body is his temple and his mind is his high-priest. He lives by his own religion – his own philosophies. He understands that in order to feel good, you have to feel healthy. He’s a well-oiled machine, inside and out.

7. He supports you and your dreams, always encouraging you and keeping things positive.

It’s the men who tell you that you can’t do something, that you can’t accomplish something, who are poisonous. Grown men don’t like to use the word “can’t,” especially when it comes to the women they love.

8. He doesn’t complain because he knows complaining doesn’t yield results.

He puts his nose to the grind and produces results. b!tching is for b!tches. He’s a grown-ass man.

9. He makes decisions, but is more than comfortable with allowing you to take the wheel.

There is never a need to have one of those pointless “what do you want to do?”, “I don’t know, whatever you want to do” conversations. If you ask him what he wants to do, he gives you options, not a question or a volley in response.

10. When he has you alone, he isn’t interested in anything other than you.

He’s not concerned with the show on TV, the music on the radio or anything other than getting you undressed. He’s a man, an animal. And he is more than keen to let the animal out to play.

11. He admits that he is wrong when he is wrong.

He doesn’t point fingers or try to maneuver out of the situation. He understands that being wrong is part of human nature. There’s no shame in it. He understands that you can’t learn if you can’t admit you’re wrong.

12. He knows your value and appreciates you for you.

He doesn’t just tell you he loves you – he shows you he loves you. To him, you are a part of his life. You are an extension of him.

He cares about you and knows that words fall short of the emotions he feels for you. He’s not shy to show you he loves you because you are one of the most important aspects of his life.