Relationship
Relationship: Things To Know Before Getting Married!
1. Once you are hooked to the wrong person the battleis over, you will either be managing or patching till
you die. If a goat marries a fish, how would they live
or where would they be meeting each other? It is only
when the goat is thirsty and goes to the river to drink
water that they will only see briefly as the fish will
jump out to greet the goat and swim away. Any
marriage where both partners see each other once in
a long while is likened to the goat and fish illustration
above. Marriage does not make marriage. It is the
people in marriage that make marriage.
2 .Compatibility is worked out, of course you may
never get a perfect person. But with
dedication,knowledge and wisdom compatibility will
start building, that is if he or she is the right person.
3. But the major challenge in getting married is
choosing the right person. You don't choose a person
because he or she is available or eligible. You choose
a person because that person is the right for you.
4. Run away from any man or woman that is easily
angered by nature; that is getting angry easily is he or
she's lifestyle. It is difficult to change that person. But
if someone gets angry by mistake, that person can be
corrected but if it is his or her nature, you have to
think twice.
5. It is possible to mis-marry. It is possible to be
living with the wrong man or woman. It is possible to
be dating the wrong person or be in courtship with
the wrong person.
6. Once your choice is right then you are on the right
track. How can a lion be married to a goat? what now
happens when the lion is hungry? Any man that beats
his wife is likened to the above illustration. Any
woman that oppresses her husband is also likened to
this scenario.
7. There are some people that are highly inflammable,
please do not take a box of matches near them. What
this means is that these people's hearts are made of
stone, giving them your soft heart in love is a mistake.
They will not value it.
8. Love may be blind to many, but marriage will
definitely open their eyes. Love in reality is not blind
when you start seeing those unchangeable signs
during courtship please keep off. When a man starts
cheating on you when dating, it is a sign that he will
do much more when he is married to you. He or she
may legally begin to cheat on you because he is now
married legally to you.
9. Dating is not for outing alone, dating is for
knowing, watching and examining. Watch out for
negative signs to see if it can be dealt with, if it
cannot be dealt with in courtship it may not change
in marriage.
10. To get the right person, try to be the right person.
Work on yourself, work on your flaws.
11 America and the western world is plagued with
divorce today because they marry without paying
attention to these facts listed above. They marry
without knowing the person they are marrying at
least to a large extent.
12. Don't practice divorce before you get married.
That is when you are breaking relationships over and
over
again, your emotion is also affected in the process.
Wait for the right person.
13. Don't marry because you cannot enjoy your
singlehood. If you are happy being single, then you
will be happy being married and if you are not happy
while still single....
14. Marriage is not an escape from singlehood but
marriage is actually a graduation from
singlehood...moving
from writing simple exams of life to writing another
hard exams.
15. Do not rush into marriage because you are under
pressure or you are feeling you are the odd one out.
When you are feeling everyone is getting married
except you then you are making yourself becoming a
wrong person.
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